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How to talk to someone with anxiety
Do you ever wonder "how can I help someone with anxiety?" What to say to someone with anxiety? Better yet, what not to say to someone with anxiety?
This video breaks it all down for you.
#anxietyrelief #anxietytips #dareresponse #communicationskills
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Відео

Navigating Panic Attacks and Cultivating Acceptance in the Anxious Mind | EP 061
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In this podcast episode, DARE coaches Michelle Cavanaugh and Aida Beco took on the challenge of navigating panic attacks, urging listeners to embrace acceptance instead of struggling to force calmness. They delved into the concept of anxiety recovery, advocating for a shift from frenetic activity to mindful presence and a willingness to allow sensations to arise and fade without resistance. Aid...
How to Embrace the Discomfort to Empower Anxiety Recovery | EP 060
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In this podcast episode, DARE coaches Michelle Cavanaugh and Aida Beco touched on various topics, including the challenge of seeking support for panic attacks. They emphasized the importance of community and shared insights on handling anxiety, addressing questions about depersonalization and driving. Michelle and Aida encouraged a gradual shift towards self-reliance and discussed the dynamics ...
Embracing Discomfort: Navigating Anxiety's Physical Sensations | EP 059
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In this podcast episode, DARE coaches Michelle Cavanaugh and Aida Beco will guide you through understanding physical sensations associated with anxiety. They advocate for accepting discomfort, letting go of the "why" spiral, and practicing mindfulness and defusion techniques. Michelle shared a personal experience of physical discomfort, emphasizing the importance of accepting heightened states ...
Overcoming Anxiety and Adrenaline Surges Through Acceptance | EP 058
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In this podcast episode, DARE coaches Michelle Cavanaugh and Aida Beco addressed one DARE community member's question about experiencing random adrenaline surges, attributing it to sensitization rather than panic disorder. They stressed the significance of normalization and encourage tuning in or out of sensations rather than obsessing over why they occur. Michelle and Aida also highlighted the...
Living with Anxiety: Embracing What Is and Letting Go of Control | EP 057
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In this podcast episode, DARE coaches Michelle Cavanaugh and Aida Beco discussed anxiety and how to deal with it effectively. They emphasized that anxiety is not a problem that needs to be fixed, but rather a normal human experience that can be handled with the right approach. They introduced the concept of "defusion," which involves stepping back from your thoughts and feelings and observing t...
Powerful Strategies to Overcome Anxiety and Panic Attacks | EP 056
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In this podcast episode, DARE coaches Michelle Cavanaugh and Aida Beco discussed common patterns and questions related to overcoming anxiety and panic attacks. They emphasized the importance of simplifying the process and finding commonalities in individuals' struggles. This podcast episode covers topics such as the significance of accepting and allowing anxiety, and the need to challenge disto...
Learning to Deal with Unpleasant Emotions Caused by Anxiety | EP 055
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In this podcast episode, DARE coaches Michelle Cavanaugh and Aida Beco talked about the nature of anxiety and how to deal with it. They explained that anxiety is a normal human emotion that everyone experiences from time to time. They also emphasized the importance of understanding physical symptoms, such as jelly legs and a spinning head, during social interactions. Their discussion revolves a...
Why Trying to Control Anxiety Only Makes It Worse | EP 054
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In this podcast episode, DARE coaches Michelle Cavanaugh and Aida Beco emphasized focusing on patterns rather than specific situations and highlight the importance of defusing anxiety through behavioral changes. They discussed the importance of accepting and allowing anxiety, rather than trying to fight it. They also talked about the different ways that people try to control anxiety, and why th...
Anxiety After Panic: Practical Tips for Post-Attack | EP 053
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In this podcast episode, DARE coaches Michelle Cavanaugh and Aida Beco engaged in a lively conversation addressing questions about handling anxiety after panic attacks. They discussed the importance of not trying to force oneself back into a state of calm immediately after a panic attack and instead, expect and accept the heightened state for a while. Michelle and Aida suggested to try and impl...
Navigating Anxiety, Exposure, and Normalizing Discomfort | EP 052
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In this podcast episode, DARE coach Michelle Cavanaugh addressed various questions about anxiety. Emphasizing the DARE approach, she encouraged surrendering the fight against anxiety rather than combatting it. Michelle delved into topics like exposure, bodily sensations, and the role of past experiences in anxiety, aiming to normalize discomfort and offer a broader understanding of the challeng...
Embracing Anxiety: Building Tolerance and Finding Support | EP 051
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In this podcast episode, DARE coaches Michelle Cavanaugh and Aida Beco discussed various aspects of anxiety and panic attacks. They emphasized the importance of not trying to control anxiety but rather accepting it as a safe sensation. They encouraged building tolerance for discomfort and offered insights into managing ruminative thoughts. Michelle and Aida also touched on the concept of highly...
How to Stop Fighting Anxiety and Start Accepting It | EP 050
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In this podcast episode, DARE coach Michelle Cavanaugh began by saying that people often tried to find certainty or a solution to anxiety by reading books or articles, but she explained that this was not helpful. She explained that anxiety was a normal human emotion, and there was no one-size-fits-all solution. She then emphasized the importance of accepting anxiety rather than fighting it. She...
The DARE Team's Journey Through Anxiety
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DARE Founder Barry McDonagh along with DARE coaches Michelle Cavanaugh and Aida Beco engage in a personal discussion about their experiences with anxiety as part of DARE's newest evidence-based guided program - DARE Academy. Michelle shares her struggle, recalling moments of claustrophobia, nausea, and difficulty breathing that led to her avoiding situations. She explains how her anxiety often ...
Acceptance and Defusion: Transforming Your Relationship with Anxiety | EP 049
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Acceptance and Defusion: Transforming Your Relationship with Anxiety | EP 049
Growing Tolerance and Accepting Uncertainty While Facing Anxiety and Panic | EP 048
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Growing Tolerance and Accepting Uncertainty While Facing Anxiety and Panic | EP 048
Understanding Anxiety: The Difference Between Noticing vs. Checking In | EP 047
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Understanding Anxiety: The Difference Between Noticing vs. Checking In | EP 047
The Importance of Embracing Your Anxiety | EP 046
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The Importance of Embracing Your Anxiety | EP 046
Self-Awareness and Acceptance: Keys to Conquering Anxiety | EP 045
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Self-Awareness and Acceptance: Keys to Conquering Anxiety | EP 045
Overcoming Anxiety and Phobias Using the DARE Response | EP 044
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Overcoming Anxiety and Phobias Using the DARE Response | EP 044
How You Can Help Your Family and Friends to Support You on Your Journey | EP 043
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How You Can Help Your Family and Friends to Support You on Your Journey | EP 043
The Importance of Self-Compassion and How It Can Assist With Recovery | EP 042
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The Importance of Self-Compassion and How It Can Assist With Recovery | EP 042
Embracing the Uncomfortable: Peter's Journey to Overcoming Anxiety | EP 041
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Embracing the Uncomfortable: Peter's Journey to Overcoming Anxiety | EP 041
Navigating Anxiety: Embracing Acceptance and Building Confidence | EP 040
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Navigating Anxiety: Embracing Acceptance and Building Confidence | EP 040
Sleepless Anxiety: Understanding and Coping with Nocturnal Panic Attacks | EP 039
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Sleepless Anxiety: Understanding and Coping with Nocturnal Panic Attacks | EP 039
Heightened Awareness: Exploring Anxiety's Impact on Perception | EP 038
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Heightened Awareness: Exploring Anxiety's Impact on Perception | EP 038
All Things OCD and Anxiety with Jenna Overbaugh, LPC | EP 037
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All Things OCD and Anxiety with Jenna Overbaugh, LPC | EP 037
DARE to Recover: Personal Experiences and Strategies for Anxiety Recovery | EP 036
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DARE to Recover: Personal Experiences and Strategies for Anxiety Recovery | EP 036
Running Towards Fear: Overcoming Anxiety and Panic Attacks | EP 035
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Running Towards Fear: Overcoming Anxiety and Panic Attacks | EP 035
Empowering Mental Health: Conversations with Dr. Mona Masood | EP 034
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Empowering Mental Health: Conversations with Dr. Mona Masood | EP 034

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @datnursenicky3022
    @datnursenicky3022 3 дні тому

    I feel like when you care too much, that's when the anxiety kicks in. I remember being numb from a bad situation and did not care. I drove much better, went on highways, etc, but now I am back to myself, and now the anxiety is coming back. I am anxious about the speed and the bend of the freeway. I can't go fast enough. I fear losing control and end up in the other lane. My body grinch when a big truck passes me on the highway. I need help!!

  • @nm9857
    @nm9857 3 дні тому

    Thanks I'm so grateful for DARE. I learn so much about how anxiety works.

  • @datnursenicky3022
    @datnursenicky3022 3 дні тому

    Does anyone on here have anxiety because the road is bent a certain way? I have wicked anxiety of that, especially the ones on the highway.

  • @phyllisboyle1162
    @phyllisboyle1162 3 дні тому

    How do I do exposure when my fear is crashing on purpose? I won’t drive. That intrusive thought terrifies me and the panic is off the charts!!!

  • @phyllisboyle1162
    @phyllisboyle1162 3 дні тому

    How do I go about driving when my intrusive thoughts about driving off the bridge or crashing on purpose scare me to death?

  • @phyllisboyle1162
    @phyllisboyle1162 3 дні тому

    Love this podcast!! Thank you.

  • @carolcostello2183
    @carolcostello2183 5 днів тому

    What a wonderful episode! Thank you so much.❤️

  • @phyllisboyle1162
    @phyllisboyle1162 5 днів тому

    I won’t drive because I have crazy thoughts of driving off the bridge or crashing on purpose. How do I deal with that?

  • @kendrafujiwara8041
    @kendrafujiwara8041 5 днів тому

    Thank you! I’ve been working on acceptance of symptoms and trying so hard to be patient as I recover from menopause-induced anxiety disorder. I have made progress, but even though I thought I understood setbacks and bumpy patches as being an expected part of the process, I’ve still been struggling and feeling disappointed when they occur. However, I have a BA in psychology so this video speaks to me and I finally get it when I hear it put in the context of classical conditioning.

  • @Cookie_DDD
    @Cookie_DDD 7 днів тому

    Thank you, Bary. This is video is helping me through a difficult relapse into panic disorder ❤

  • @tooalapcthree5658
    @tooalapcthree5658 7 днів тому

    This is the only way...resistance creates friction that makes anxiety worst..let it flow and allow it 100%..

  • @user-fb3wy5rd1r
    @user-fb3wy5rd1r 9 днів тому

    Michelle, your life’s work is very important and you are good at what you do.

  • @SethMoxie
    @SethMoxie 9 днів тому

    The only difficulty I have with doing this is when I’m in a situation that requires my attention. If I’m at work talking to someone, I want to stay and not run off to a safe space. I want to stay and face my fears. My parents were over last night; and my mom was speaking negatively about her health and had said that someone she knew had a stroke. I immediately go into a full blown panic attack from hearing this, as I have when other people have talked about other health issues. I’m not sure how to do this in the middle of everything going on. I want to be present but it’s so hard to do right in the middle of things that require me to be there.

  • @abacdse
    @abacdse 10 днів тому

    Cardiophobia can stop you exercising it’s a horrible feeling

  • @veggieanimallover7046
    @veggieanimallover7046 10 днів тому

    I've recently downloaded the app and started reading the book. This was my first podcast I listened to and I feel personally attacked! 😂 Thanks for all the great information.

  • @samanthahumphreys2440
    @samanthahumphreys2440 11 днів тому

    Your both soo funny 😂😂

  • @SandungaLuna
    @SandungaLuna 11 днів тому

    Yes anxiety finds a way to find any random reason to form an issue. 😅 it’s all the same thing but it’s so innovative to catch your attention but all the same. I was also told don’t cry as a child And don’t make that face! When I was upset. I grew up hiding all my emotions ❤ I definitely don’t know how to handle uncomfortable feelings.

  • @SandungaLuna
    @SandungaLuna 13 днів тому

    The change of weather definitely makes me confuse feeling hot with anxiety. Thank you guys for this you have no idea how much these videos help

  • @Bee-mi8ml
    @Bee-mi8ml 13 днів тому

    You are a hoot!

  • @VM-oi3dk
    @VM-oi3dk 14 днів тому

    It’s just an unconscious habit your subconscious and body falls into

  • @julies570
    @julies570 15 днів тому

    What about if uou also have trauma such as cptsd? Does that change anything about this proscription tp deal with anxiety?

  • @w0rdsBIoom
    @w0rdsBIoom 16 днів тому

    So how do you "practice" and go out and live your life and do what you have to do or would like to do if your anxiety/panic attacks trigger IBS-D attacks of diarrhea and vomiting where you're practically chained to a toilet for a while OR you have to be near one at all times just in case?

    • @Sillygoosebonk
      @Sillygoosebonk 12 днів тому

      Practice is not doing anything about it aka not fighting your feelings, by the way you described having ti be near a toilet at all times that tells me you're fighting it, if you have an actual condition then sure be aware of the possibility that oh okay I need to use the restroom, but don't fight your symptoms/ feelings, I went through something similar except I would fear not being in control etc but if you allow and accept then life becomes much easier trust me.

  • @debbiec6216
    @debbiec6216 17 днів тому

    Dr Sanjay Gupta *The Best Doctor* !!!!

  • @dorothybeveridge3133
    @dorothybeveridge3133 18 днів тому

    I don’t have support .

  • @dorothybeveridge3133
    @dorothybeveridge3133 18 днів тому

    Where do I find dare to buy ?

  • @legacytrainer4242
    @legacytrainer4242 20 днів тому

    I'm in the field and have to say, You two really know your stuff! I wish I would have found you a few years ago.

  • @Katie-gd8bd
    @Katie-gd8bd 22 дні тому

    Does this apply to physical sensations as well (dizzy, unsteadiness)? I know you say a lot about thoughts, but would this apply to symptoms as well? Do we treat them the same way as we would our thoughts?

  • @user-fb3wy5rd1r
    @user-fb3wy5rd1r 22 дні тому

    Makes so much sense. Thanks, Michelle. The modern Claire Weekes of today.

  • @wendydiaz8988
    @wendydiaz8988 22 дні тому

    Healing develops in compassion, mercy and understanding. Grace…is the key. Critical, self condemning and frustration are fertile ground for anxiety.

  • @Borboleta1212
    @Borboleta1212 22 дні тому

    I never knew that the dogs were taught to ‘un-learn’ the response!! Even though theoretically I know it’s possible to make new more positive associations and break old conditioning, this somehow has given me fresh inspiration and confidence . Thanks 🙏🙌✨💪✈️

  • @juliegillespie903
    @juliegillespie903 22 дні тому

    Hope you’re ok Dee. It’s an awful feeling xx

  • @ronturitto3934
    @ronturitto3934 23 дні тому

    I'm literally crying this makes so much sense.

  • @lalalalakuy996
    @lalalalakuy996 25 днів тому

    When i listened positif affirmation you spread, I felt sad because i remembered how i was before i got a panic attack, and for today and the next day my soul rises to recover from this panic attack. Thankyou very much greeting from indonesia 🇮🇩🇮🇩🙏🙏

  • @bchristopher2270
    @bchristopher2270 25 днів тому

    Hey man it’s Dave 😂 Doesn’t anyone remember Cheech and Chong?

  • @AnxietyReliefYoga
    @AnxietyReliefYoga 26 днів тому

    I have suffered a severe panic attack back in 2021, doctors have put me on clonazepam and other high doses of medicine but still I was affected. I went for psychotherapy but the doctor had given me breathing techniques which made my symptoms worse. Finally got to know about the flooding technique from doctor berry and within a week it was gone. Still in a year I used to get in a panic attack due to stress but it doesn't bother me at all as I used to say that it's a simple adrenaline rush it will not kill me nor give me a heart attack. Thank you Doctor Berry you are a life saver.

  • @alvaroalfaro9478
    @alvaroalfaro9478 26 днів тому

    It's easy to feel logic and confidence in coping with a panic attack until you are in the middle of one

  • @kbpanchal22
    @kbpanchal22 26 днів тому

    Idk It's Urges or normal But I Just Tend To Be in Freeze Mode always When Intrusive Thoughts Attacks The Most..😓💯

  • @bchristopher2270
    @bchristopher2270 26 днів тому

    Sex with Unicorns should be the name of Michelle’s next book.

  • @prismatic1239
    @prismatic1239 27 днів тому

    29:10 This is the main problem I have been dealing with. I feel validated as fuck right now oh my god.

  • @bchristopher2270
    @bchristopher2270 28 днів тому

    The hilarious irony of this video is that it actually captures the true essence of meditation better than most I've seen lol.

  • @danny.halstead2181
    @danny.halstead2181 Місяць тому

    Depersonalization sucks so much

  • @Hamaan7
    @Hamaan7 Місяць тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @zentai4324
    @zentai4324 Місяць тому

    Hey @Dare team! Would you consider doing a episode with Mark Freeman perhaps? I think it would be a great collab to see that many would benefit from :)

  • @spencertatta
    @spencertatta Місяць тому

    I’ve never talked about my experience with DP/DR because when I got out of it after years, I was more focused on living my life than talking about such a hard time in my life. After getting out of it, it wasn’t even that thinking would have brought it back. When I say it is gone, I mean it is GONE. I tried bringing it back multiple times just to make sure it was gone. Nothing I tried would bring it back. With that being said, please be patient with yourself! This is definitely a journey, but it’s not the end of your life. I thought I was DONE. Laying in my bed fully convinced that my life is over. Since then, I started a business, finished college, and I’ll be moving out of my home state and pursuing a new career! YOU ARE NOT BROKEN! YOU WILL RECOVER! If you’re wondering when… then that’s probably why you still feel that way. Get out and live as if it wasn’t there. It won’t feel good in the moment, but it’s part of recovery! If you have any questions, I’m here to help🤍

  • @user-fb3wy5rd1r
    @user-fb3wy5rd1r Місяць тому

    Both are so good at the help they provide

  • @lorenarodriguez9330
    @lorenarodriguez9330 Місяць тому

    Is there a way for the DARE administration to look into opening an “only success stories” in the DARE app under buddy groups? Most of the stories I read is about people still panicking and having high levels of anxiety and symptoms galore! They are daring but still sounds like they are miserable in their anxiety journey 🫤

  • @rossgh76
    @rossgh76 Місяць тому

    I wished more therapists would adopt this method... the light bulb went on for me and I am very grateful for having found your app and channel... Keep up the great work and giving hope to people with anxiety ♥❤🥰🥰🥰

  • @karimsabry9502
    @karimsabry9502 Місяць тому

    Great message 🏆

  • @iRoxanneLady
    @iRoxanneLady Місяць тому

    This is great ❤